closer to fine
Tuesday, February 14, 2017
Monday, February 13, 2017
first post breakup date.
He was nice. And cute. And funny. All of the things that you were on our first date. He and I have more in common than you and I ever did. We have mutual friends and he likes that same music and movies and T.V. shows as I do. I really liked his beard. He's older than you and has a good job. He and I seem like we would be a good match. The only problem is that he is not you.
On my way home I drove past that Thai place we talked about trying. I let the tears fall quietly down my face.
On my way home I drove past that Thai place we talked about trying. I let the tears fall quietly down my face.
Sunday, February 12, 2017
breakups & social media.
I told you that I was a firm believer in clean breaks which is why right after you broke my heart I deleted your number and all the messages you had ever sent to me. I unfriended you on instagram and snapchat (which you didn't even have before we met). Facebook, however, is still there.
Soon after the break up you set your profile picture to a picture that you knew i loved because it was the background of my phone the whole time we were dating.
Yesterday your mom posted a video of you playing the drums. I cried so hard I couldn't breathe.
Soon after the break up you set your profile picture to a picture that you knew i loved because it was the background of my phone the whole time we were dating.
Yesterday your mom posted a video of you playing the drums. I cried so hard I couldn't breathe.
Tuesday, January 31, 2017
Friday, January 27, 2017
We sat in your car outside my parent’s house and even though
it had only been 6 weeks I felt as though I might explode if I kept my love for you
inside me. I handed you my heart and you
took it. You looked it over much like a little brother looks at a functional
pair of socks given to him on Christmas morning. You turned it over in your
hands, trying to comprehend its value. “Thank
you,” you finally replied out of obligation, much like the little brother. I hoped that you would give me your heart in
return, but instead you did just as I knew you would and kept it for yourself.
You kept mine for exactly a month and then in the same car, in the same parking
lot where you first kissed me, you took my heart out of your pocket and held it
up in front of my face. It made me wish immediately that I would have kept it
for myself, I hated Brene Brown for convincing me to be vulnerable. You talked about why you wanted to accept my gift but couldn’t
bring yourself to then you ripped it right down the middle. “No hard feelings,”
you said as you handed the pieces back to me. I wasn’t sure if it was a
question or a statement so I nodded, holding back my tears. You were right
though, if it was a statement and if it was a question the answer is no, there
are no hard feelings, no bitterness or resentment, no hostility or anger. Just
understanding. Understanding that receiving a heart is a massive responsibility.
A heart has to be cared for and nurtured. You have to take it everywhere you go
and protect it fiercely. Holding a heart is a responsibility too vast for a twenty-one-year-old little boy to undertake. So even though accepting returns is generally against my policy and although
you returned my heart without a receipt I’ll take it back because I need
someone who is ready for the responsibility of holding it.
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